1.
Think "people first." Say "a woman who has mental retardation"
rather than "a mentally retarded woman."
2.
Avoid words like "unfortunate," "afflicted" and "victim." Also,
try to avoid casting a person with a disability as a superhuman
model of courage. People with disabilities are just people, not
tragic figures or demigods.
3. A developmental disability is not a disease. Do not mention
"symptom," "patients" or "treatment," unless the person you're
writing about has an illness as well as a disability.
4.
Use common sense. Avoid terms with obvious negative or judgmental
connotations, such as "crippled," "deaf and dumb," "lame" and
"defective." If you aren't sure how to refer to a person's condition,
ask. And, if the disability is not relevant to your story or conversation,
why mention it at all?
5.
Never refer to a person as "confined to a wheelchair." Wheelchairs
enable people to escape confinement. A person with a mobility
impairment "uses" a wheelchair.
6.
Try to describe people without disabilities as "typical" rather
than "normal."